Love in First Class


I’m on a plane to Florida right now. My dad fell out of bed and he’s in the hospital.

Yesterday on the phone he told me that he loved me, my mom, my brother, his grandkids and my husband very much.

He’s 85 years old. I have no idea if he will regain his strength and health. I don’t know what the future holds for him.

I can only be sure of love.

As I was getting ready to begin my journey to Florida this morning (taking a car, bus, plane and cab), I decided to commit to loving in preparation for being of assistance to my parents.

I came up with this Ask and Receive positive intention:

I feel so much love for my family and everyone I meet.

And holy molely! Magical things happened today. I met a Chinese woman at the airport who was flying to China to see her family. The airline clerk noticed that her visa had expired.

I did a little Ho’oponopono (a Huna process) for the young woman and felt such tenderness toward her. I later saw her passing successfully through security. My heart jumped with joy.

Then as I boarded my plane, I felt warmth toward everyone I had eye contact with. As I was heading to my seat in the WAY back of the plane, right near the bathrooms, I was looking at the people relaxing in the First Class section and thinking, “Wow, wouldn’t it be just wonderful if I could fly First Class on this plane ride!” I felt (like in the movie The Secret) such enthusiasm and joy. I also experienced this special feeling of being, “in the flow.”

As I was walking past the First Class section, I noticed that there was one seat left. To my surprise, I was invited to sit there for NO extra charge instead of having to go all the way in the back. I replied with a BIG, “yes!” The plane was very full.

I felt gratitude, love and astonishment as I experienced flying First Class! I was served a hot tea immediately and a delicious lunch of Mediterranean salad. I felt so cared for and nurtured.

I knew that once I arrived in Florida, I would be very busy navigating this health crisis that my father and mother were experiencing and all that it entailed. So, I thoroughly enjoyed this respite.

Miracles can happen when we commit to opening up to love, and even after all these years of using Ask and Receive, and seeing the power of its transformation, I am still blown away when I find more areas in myself to open to loving.

Are you committed to loving? What is your unique positive statement?

I invite you to do this daily, just as you would in a meditation practice.

It literally took me one minute to do this.

Here is the Ask and Receive protocol:

There is a part of my being that already knows how to feel great love for my family and everyone I meet.

That part of my being is willing to inform the rest of me now.

It’s doing so now with grace and ease.

My mind, body and spirit are receiving this information.

Information transfer is now complete.

Now make the statement:

My body now knows how to feel great love for my family and everyone I meet.

Notice how it feels. Is there any part of you that pulls back? Is there any negative thought or judgment? If so, that is fine, you have just found another piece to heal.

Focus on any negativity and say:

There is a part of my being that already knows how to heal and release this sensation, what it represents and its point of entry.

That part of my being is willing to inform the rest of me now.

It’s doing so now with grace and ease.

My mind, body and spirit are receiving this information.

Information transfer is now complete.

Now make the statement again:

My body now knows how to feel great love for my family and everyone I meet.

When you notice positive feelings in your body after you say this statement like peace or calm, then you are done. If not, just repeat the process above.

I invite you to do this daily for a while and simply notice what happens.

Let me know how this works for you by posting your comments down below.

With Great Love and Gratitude,


  11 comments for “Love in First Class

  1. Wanda A. Thibodeaux
    March 27, 2016 at 11:19 pm

    Hi Pam, greetings and shalom. It’s Wanda Thibodeaux, from Katy, Texas. I was blessed to have spoken to you once, a few years ago, via telephone.
    I welcome/value your information here greatly. My once “nearly perfect” marriage has hit some cloudy, doubt-stricken times. Mainly due to illness then death of my husband’s Mother 2 years ago, loss of his employment over a year ago and the myriad of financial stresses which that brings on. Our relationship has suffered in many, many ways. However; I feel we are on the upswing and are together trying to get back what we’ve lost. I now, look forward to implementing your relationship/Ask and receive protocol (I admit I did not think of using the A & R in our situation; even though It has worked for me in the past!) I sent this article to my husband and asked him to commit to doing this daily also.
    I truly hope to be able to send you an amazingly wonderful testimony of a miraculous shift in our lives/relationship before the anniversary of our 34th year of marriage, June 6, 2016!
    Thank you, sincerely, Wanda T.

    • Pam Altaffer
      March 30, 2016 at 5:49 pm

      Hi Wanda–I remember our deep conversation! Please let me know how the Relationship A&R Protocol works for you. If you need some coaching support, please don’t hesitate to contact me. A big mistake we make sometimes in relationships is not reaching out for invaluable guidance and support from others.

  2. Margarita
    March 28, 2016 at 4:18 am

    Pam I know your friend Sandra Radomski. I learned Ask and Receive from her. I am very fond of her and I thank you Tom and Sandra for this great gift.

    • Pam Altaffer
      March 30, 2016 at 5:40 pm

      You are so welcome, my dear.

  3. Marti
    March 28, 2016 at 5:17 am

    Thank you! This is just what I needed. I have been doing a one-sentence affirmation like this for a couple years now: “I am healthy”… I have even been making it my password for accounts that aren’t financial. And my health has been steadily improving. Now it’s time for me to tackle the past life karma I just realized has been holding me back (for maybe my entire life). THANKS!

    • Pam Altaffer
      March 30, 2016 at 5:39 pm

      Thank YOU for sharing this positive health outcome and your new affirmation. When we reveal to others what healing successes we experience it reverberates out in ways that we can’t imagine.

  4. Lynn
    March 28, 2016 at 8:39 am

    I love this and am definitely going to employ this affirmation.I believe that when people feel love they return love. What you a d Glen do for your parents is as loving as it gets . Your dad sounds 200% improved, now I think mom needs some work to catch up. Mom or dad said that after your family returns to NJ that Glen and family will come to visit . Can we put together a big family reunion.? I think that would be fabulous ! Regards to all.

  5. Brenda Hansen
    March 28, 2016 at 9:57 am

    Hi Pam – I have done Ask and Receive surrogately for you, affirming the highest and best outcome for your current situation. Ask and Receive has brought such comfort and blessing to me since my training with you, Tom and Sandi, and I have shared its wonders with others who have found, as with Ho’oponopono, miracles big and small occurring in their lives. You have truly given us a means to a higher level of access to that part of our Being that does already know and simply awaits our asking. All the best to you and yours.

    • Pam
      March 30, 2016 at 4:59 pm

      Hi Brenda–My dad is out of rehab and is doing MUCH better. Thank you for the added healing and positive thoughts! I remember you fondly in our workshop. You seem to have a deep knowing about the many uses and complexities of using Ask and Receive. I am delighted that you are experiencing A&R’s healing power.

  6. March 31, 2016 at 4:05 am

    love those wonderful blog posts and I appreciate those helpful applications that you keep sharing, I am hoping you visit Europe soon, I look forward to learning from you first hand (I bought several of the courses on ask and receive and muscle testing and have been using them very successfully) ,wish you all the best

    • Pam Altaffer
      March 31, 2016 at 10:17 pm

      Hi Ruba–Tom, Sandi and I will be presenting A&R in London for 3 days October 21-23, 2016. We would love to see you there! We will begin advertising the training soon.
      It means a lot to me that you are finding these blogs useful. Thanks for your kind words.

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